By Mildred Robertson
We all knew it was coming from the day Mitch McConnell
stole the first Supreme Court seat from Barack Obama. He and his cohorts
relentlessly worked to pack as many ultra-conservative justices on the court as
passive Democrats would allow. These well-groomed sycophants said just the
right things to make the likes of Susan Collins and Joe Manchin publicly
confirm that these nominees would honor prior Supreme Court decisions such as
Roe v. Wade.
We all knew better. But, that didn’t make it any
easier when it actually happened.
So as I approach the close of June 24, 2022, I do
so with fewer rights than I had when I went to bed last night. Because today, the
Supreme Court of the United States struck down a ruling that had governed most
of my life. They ended a ruling that said I had autonomy over my own body. It
dragged me back to a time when my life could be regulated based on a menstrual
cycle or the lack thereof. That is the reality of young women all over America
today. The Court has stepped into their bedrooms; their doctor’s offices, their
minister’s study, their mother’s kitchen, and removed their ability to make
life-changing choices based upon decisions they arrive upon with the counsel of
one, all, or none of those mentioned.
You see, pro-choice advocates seem to think young
women take lightly the decision to end a pregnancy. But it is, in fact, an
agonizing decision for most. There are factors too numerous to mention here that
can complicate bringing an unplanned pregnancy to fruition. Obvious factors include
rape and incest, the youth or health of the mother, marriage or partner
complications, finances…and a myriad of other factors. The timing of an
unplanned pregnancy can halt a woman’s climb up the corporate ladder. It can
happen at a time when a budding entrepreneur just got her feet under her or
just when a woman has lost her job. It can be a decision that changes the
entire trajectory of her life, and therefore, it should be no one’s decision
but her own.
I know the agony of the choice. You see, my second
child was conceived while I was on the pill. I had a bad case of the flu and
could keep nothing on my stomach, including my birth control pills. When I
found out I was pregnant, we weren’t particularly thrilled, since we already
had a child in diapers. But after the initial shock, we were both okay with it…until
the ultrasound. It turns out that I had been carrying twins, but one sack was
empty. The doctors said that meant that there was a defect that could possibly be
present in the remaining embryo as well. He said that we could do an amino
synthesis, but that could cause injury to the embryo; carry to term, and take
our chances or we could abort. My husband and I cried, prayed, and finally made
the decision to take our chances. It was a horrible six months. But we were
lucky. God granted us a healthy baby boy. I share that story with you to show how
private and intimate the decisions related to abortion are. It almost feels
like you are spying on my private life, right? This is a space that should be
shared only by those on the “invited” list. There is no time when the
government is invited.
You do not know what challenges a couple or a
single mother must face when making the decision to terminate a pregnancy. You
do not know her circumstances, resources, or her mental health, all factors
which will impact her ability to love and care for a child.
The final outcome of government interference in
this private decision is an increase in children forced upon a system that
already cannot handle the load. Having women serve as human incubators to “increase
the domestic supply” of babies is among the most absurd reasons I have heard to
date. It sounds like a line from Margaret Atwood’s “A Handmaid’s Tale.” Unfortunately,
that is the position of at least one seated Supreme Court Justice.
In my situation, I made the choice that worked for
me. I am glad that it was MY decision and my consequences. If someone else in
the same position made a decision that was different than mine it would be just
as valid as my own.
I think that is the point. Whether another person
should abort or carry to term is a decision that I have neither the right to
make nor the wisdom to judge. That’s a lesson that the SCOTUS and legislators
around the nation should learn. We should help them learn that lesson on
November 8th by creating a “Blue Wave” that will wash away any hint
of Gilead and return us to an America where women are free.
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